A healthy relationship.
Yeah, I’ll take one of those. How about you?
Silly question. Of course, you want to be part of a healthy relationship.
But when it comes to how to have a healthy relationship, it takes a little more effort than just saying we want one.
What’s the first thing you think of when you see (or hear or read) the word transform?
When I see that word I immediately think of a caterpillar turning into a butterfly.
But don’t worry. We are not about to start a deep discussion about butterflies. Pretty sure you knew that but I just wanted to be crystal clear.
A better coffee maker. A better phone.
Better sheets for your bed. Better face lotion.
Most of us have thought about things like this. Things in our lives that may be in need of a little upgrade.
Has the thought of how to have a better marriage ever popped into your head?
Ready to talk all about how to have a healthy marriage?
Great, me too! Let’s dive right in!
First, let’s make one thing very clear.
Can you define what makes a good relationship?
I can.
Do you know the exact steps to follow to learn how to have a good relationship?
I do. Sort of. Kind of. To a point.
We are all different. Every person individually and every relationship. And there’s tons of different relationship advice out there. SO MUCH ADVICE.
Would you say you have a good marriage?
Would you describe your marriage as happy?
Here’s the thing. When it comes to how to have a good marriage, there isn’t a secret handbook out there that has all the answers.
Ready to talk about the habits of successful people?!
Let’s start this off in my favorite way. With a question.
Do you ever feel like successful people know something you don’t?
I do! I convince myself that something just went right for them. They were let into a super-secret group where they were told exactly how to make all their dreams come true. In my mind, they were spoon-fed the secret sauce.
Name a goal you have right now!
Didn’t mean to put you on the spot. But do you have a goal in mind?
OK, now pull out the map that shows you exactly how to achieve your goals.
Can’t find it?
This is all about how to live a better life.
What does that even mean? What does building a better life truly look like?
How does the idea of a better life actually translate into action?
Well, I know one thing for sure.
There is no one right answer to this. There is no one size fits all approach.
This is all about gifts for the woman who has everything. And those have got to be my favorite women to shop for.
Um…kidding of course!
Buying a gift for someone that seems to have everything or someone that says they don’t want or need anything can present quite a challenge.
But these ideas are here to help.
