Change.
What comes to mind when I say that word?
What about the question of how to embrace change?
Let’s get right down to it.
This is all about you handling changes rather than changes handling you.
Want. Get. Two simple words.
But these simple words can carry a lot of power in life.
Think about how many times we say those words. So many times!
But this is about not just saying the words.
This is about actually discovering how to get what you want!
Before we talk about how to get your marriage back on track, let me ask you a couple of questions.
Yep, we are starting with questions.
One of these questions is simple and straight forward.
The other question is simple too but it’s more about my curiosity.
Marriage can often seem like a big picture idea.
But it is time to rethink that. That’s where these little ways to work on your marriage every day come into play.
My marriage improved by leaps and bounds when I started to view it as a small picture journey.
When I started to really pick apart the day to day interactions, that’s when the big changes started happening.
Fight and fair. Do these two words go together like PB & J?
Maybe not that well. I mean, PB & J is such a classic and perfect combo.
But the way a couple handles fights or disagreements has a huge impact on the health of the relationships.
That’s why it is so crucial to figure out how to fight fair with your spouse.
Being a parent is hard.
This is something that is said all the time.
We have all heard this or most likely said this to someone else.
But this isn’t about how hard being a parent is.
This is about taking a peek behind the curtain.
What day is it?
Do I even remember how to put on makeup?
I miss Target and the library.
These are just a few of the random thoughts running through my mind during this quarantine.
I bet you are having quite a few thoughts of your own.
Are any of those thoughts about how to find joy?
When it comes to how to have a happy relationship, it’s not rocket science.
First, you fall in love.
Then you live happily ever after.
Wait! I think we missed something!
No relationship out there is perfect. No relationship is free of challenges or struggles.
So the thought of how to improve your relationship is something that has crossed all of our minds.
And that’s a good thing. It’s a good thing to make your relationship a priority. It’s a great thing.
Before we get to the good stuff, there’s one important thing I have to share.
Every marriage out there will always be a work in progress. Always! Every single one.
Of course, these simple ways to improve your marriage will help you make positive changes to your relationship.
